Catem is a gender, not a species! This may be a bit confusing, but my brother and I are catems. The characters in our plays, Rosie and Daisy, are cats not catems. Even though our characters are cats we in real life go by the gender of catem. Not boy or girl, woman or man. Catem! There are many different rules of being a catem, and even though it may not be the nicest, catems are determined by their characteristics. Not determined by the way they look. You may be confused on what pronouns someone should use to address a catem. No need to worry, you may address a catem using he/him or she/her. Either one is acceptable. The true pronouns for a catem are eh instead of he/she and esh instead of him/her. just make sure that when you refer to someone, that you know is a catem, as a specific gender make sure to call them a catem.